Recently I had lunch with a friend and her sister. I really wanted to get to know her sister better since I had only met her briefly in the past. Instead of engaging in conversation, she looked past me and judged every person that walked by behind me. Granted, we were sitting in a restaurant on Venice Beach and that is quite the place to people watch–I’ll give her that.
At some point though, we need to BE with the people we’re with. Every comment was cutting and critical. It was hard to be in that space since most of the people I spend time with have realized that I don’t like to go there.
I want to be present with people, not tear them apart.
After too many non stop minutes of this, I decided to do what is the biggest NO NO these days–I picked up my phone, started taking pictures of the beauty around me, posting to Facebook.
Something I learned a long time ago, whenever you judge anything, you hold yourself apart from all the things you are wanting to be and do and have. All the attention on “what’s wrong” just pulls more of “what’s wrong” into your life!
The other thing I know is that we are all part of the same stuff, let’s stop tearing ourselves and others apart and start celebrating the greatness within and beyond ourselves.
I want to be with people when I’m in their presence — I don’t want to judge everything that moves behind them! It’s a practice, it’s an art–to become present in the moment and fully absorbed in that moment with no distractions.
Presence within ourselves and the presence within our fellow beings is where ALL the power resides but it’s only here NOW! I’m going to celebrate NOW. Please, please, BE With Me Now!